7 Types Of People You Date While In Uniform

Romance in the military is no easy task. Looking for love amid deployments, exercises, and regular duty station moves across the world is daunting even for the most avid believers in love and all that other crap you see in Disney movies during which I pretend very hard not to cry.

Even so, the search for love and companionship is important to the mental well-being of everyone, regardless of the terrible life choices they’ve made. Working in a field that tends to take you all over the world introduces service members to a wide range of people to meet and date, and while some of them may be normal and well-adjusted people, chances are they’ll fit into one or more of the following categories.

1. The Expert.

If the first thing someone you’re on a date with asks you is “What’s your MOS?” chances are you’ve got one of these on your hands. He or she somehow reads all the pubs and manuals, talks the lingo, and loves debating you about the merits of gear and vehicles that you really didn’t even know or care about in the first place.

2. The Fetishist.

The first time the response to the question, “What do you want to do tonight?” ends with the phrase, “…with your boots still bloused,” you can be sure you’ve found a fetishist.

3. The Gotta Catch ‘Em All.

“Oh, you’re a Marine, you say? Well let’s see, I’ve already had three soldiers, four airmen, and a Coast Guardsman. After I’m done with you, I’ll just get your Corpsman’s numbers and my collection will be complete.”

4. The Fellow Service Member.

Absolutely, 100% your best option to enter a world of love and joy made of unicorns and candy puppies. And I’m not just saying that because I’m dating a fellow veteran who’s probably going to read this article. Hi honey!

5. The Remora.

For those who don’t watch Shark Week, a remora is one of those sucker fish that attaches itself to the stomach of a shark or other large fish and feeds off its scraps. In military dating terms, these are the men and women who ask to accompany you to the PX by your third date and want to know the details on getting a dependent ID by the fifth. If you stay with one long enough that they start using phrases like “our battalion” and “when we get promoted,” run.

6. Mr./Ms. Insecurity.

These are the people who cannot handle the fact that you, as a military member, are generally seen as tougher than the average person. Every part of your one-on-one relationship with one of these can be fine and dandy. But every time some third person asks about one of your fields ops or deployments, you won’t be able to respond over the deafening and endless bragging about Tough Mudders, kettle bells, and challenging you to push-up contests.

7. The Imaginary Person.

You tend to see people dating these a lot in the more inhospitable shitholes like Twentynine Palms. I did the whole time I was there, after all. She was a model. And a nuclear physicist. You don’t know her because she lived across town and had to fly her private jet on spy missions a lot. So shut up.

Yes, there are variations, but these are the main groupings of people you’ll wind up taking for dinner, drinks, and dancing (or push-up contests, depending) while you wear a uniform. You can even have combinations. Like, for instance, an Imaginary Insecure Fetishist. In that case, you are undoubtedly from my old duty station. Please see your battalion commanding officer to receive the “Loneliest Marine of the Quarter” award. Congrats.

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