In another life, we would have been planning for this sort of thing as our special night out. My husband would fret over his uniform, making sure each medal was placed correctly and every inch was perfectly pressed. I would spend hours shopping for the “perfect dress.” We’d meet up with some of our friends beforehand, admiring one another’s dresses and laughing about our night to come.
I loved admiring my handsome husband in his uniform. I enjoyed the tradition and the camaraderie among soldiers. Little did I know there would be no more military balls for the two of us.
My husband, Army Capt. Brian “Bubba” Bunting, was killed in Afghanistan on Feb. 24, 2009. Just before, Bubba had been home on leave, and just days after Bubba was taken from us, I found out I was expecting our second child.
Not only did I lose my husband, I lost my family: the military community. Like many military spouses, I had come to define many parts of myself through the lens of that community. With my husband gone, the things and people I had come to identify with and lean on were no more. I lost my husband and I lost a sense of myself.
We, what remained of my family, were still part of the military community, but at the same time, we weren’t. We were every other spouse’s worst nightmare. It wasn’t until I met other widows going through the same struggle to regain hope that I started to heal. Through the nonprofit organization,Tragedy Assistance Program for Survivors, or TAPS, I met other widows who shared my lost sense of self. Quickly, I made friends and we bonded. Now we share that same sense of community and they are my new military family. Through seminars, retreats, and beautiful events like the TAPS gala, we have learned to laugh again. We’ve learned to smile again. Most of all, though, we’ve learned that we can live a wonderful life again, and we’ll do so by each other’s side.
I’m sure there are fancy parties and galas every night in D.C. Some people probably take going to those for granted. Tonight, I’m going to the TAPS gala and I could not be more excited. It’s a chance for me to connect with other widows and survivors, to share my story. More importantly, tonight’s gala is a chance for me to be among my military family again.
Every once in a while, we run across a photo in The Times-Picayune archives that's so striking that it begs a simple question: "What in the name of Momus Alexander Morgus is going on in this New Orleans photograph?" When we do, we've decided, we're going to share it — and to attempt to answer that question.
Members of the Syrian Democratic Forces control the monitor of their drone at their advanced position, during the fighting with Islamic State's fighters in Nazlat Shahada, a district of Raqqa. (Reuters/Zohra Bensemra)
MUSCAT (Reuters) - The United States should keep arming and aiding the Kurdish-led Syrian Democratic Forces (SDF) following the planned U.S. withdrawal from Syria, provided the group keeps up the pressure on Islamic State, a senior U.S. general told Reuters on Friday.
Long before Tony Stark took a load of shrapnel to the chest in a distant war zone, science fiction legend Robert Heinlein gave America the most visceral description of powered armor for the warfighter of the future. Forget the spines of extra-lethal weaponry, the heads-up display, and even the augmented strength of an Iron Man suit — the real genius, Heinlein wrote in Starship Troopers, "is that you don't have to control the suit; you just wear it, like your clothes, like skin."
"Any sort of ship you have to learn to pilot; it takes a long time, a new full set of reflexes, a different and artificial way of thinking," explains Johnny Rico. "Spaceships are for acrobats who are also mathematicians. But a suit, you just wear."
First introduced in 2013, U.S. Special Operations Command's Tactical Assault Light Operator Suit (TALOS) purported to offer this capability as America's first stab at militarized powered armor. And while SOCOM initially promised a veritable Iron Man-style tactical armor by 2018, a Navy spokesman told Task & Purpose the much-hyped exoskeleton will likely never get off the launch pad.
"The prototype itself is not currently suitable for operation in a close combat environment," SOCOM spokesman Navy Lt. Phillip Chitty told Task & Purpose, adding that JATF-TALOS has no plans for an external demonstration this year. "There is still no intent to field the TALOS Mk 5 combat suit prototype."