Honoring Our Gold Star Mothers

By Erin Bettis

Gold Mother's Day
Photo Courtesy of Patrick Hughes

For nearly a century, the Gold Star tradition has reminded Americans of the brave men and women who have sacrificed their lives for their country. The tradition dates back to World War I when military families would hang a blue star in the windows of their homes to signify an active duty service member. That blue star was replaced with a gold star when a service member was killed in the line of duty. From this simple act of unity, the Gold Star Mothers, a network of mothers who have lost a son or daughter in combat, was formed.

Today, Gold Star Mother’s Day is celebrated on the last Sunday of September each year. These women inspire others through their poise, gallantry and resilience to honor their son or daughter’s legacy.

The title of Gold Star Mother is a badge no woman wants. However, these women have stepped forward past the restraint of loss to band together for support and guidance. This group compiles matriarchs from generations of women who have survived their children during our nation’s historic conflicts. Their unifying loss bonds them when the rest of the world is numb to the aftermath of their children’s ultimate sacrifice.

Our Gold Star Mothers extend a hand to one another as an act of unifying and healing. If you’re looking to receive that hand, or if you’re looking for ways to help our Gold Star Mothers and Families, here are some resources that may help.

Since the late 1920s, this organization of empathetic women arranges yearly memorial events around the country including Gold Star Mother’s Day at Arlington National Cemetery.

Beginning in 2010, the Gold Star Family Registry is an online resource which honors those who have laid down their lives for freedom during all of America’s past conflicts.

Standing to honor and bring awareness to Prisoners of War/Missing in Action (POW/MIA), Rolling Thunder is a non-profit organization that donates to charities helping Veterans and families of POW/MIA.

Founded in 1994, T.A.P.S. provides emotional support to anyone who has lost a friend or family member serving in the United States Armed Forces. This group helps not only the families of lost loved ones, but they offer assistance to all who suffer.

For additional resources, please visit your base’s survivor outreach program.


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Erin BettisI am Patricia’s Daughter. When I rest my hat as military wife and mother to daughters Whitney and Kennedy, I spend my down-time reading, writing, and laughing hysterically at my goofy husband.

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