John McCain, the legendary Navy aviator and long-time Republican senator from Arizona, passed away on Saturday at age 81.

John McCain the Senate colleague 

In 1978, shortly after I was elected to the Senate, I was asked to travel to China with Senators Sam Nunn, John Glenn, and Gary Hart to meet with China’s Leader, Deng Xiaoping.  Then Captain John McCain was the Navy’s Senate Liaison Officer, and he escorted us on the trip.   

When he learned that I had selected the committees I would serve on —and the Armed Services Committee was not among them—he badgered me (respectfully) to change the commitments I’d made. I was reluctant to do so, but he proved unrelenting— and irresistible. 

John’s bravery and honor were well known, but what impressed me most was his indefatigable energy, good humor and passion to serve our country.  He was just damn fun to be with. 

While on the Committee, I would turn to him frequently for guidance because I knew he would give me his “straight talk.” When John decided to run for elective office, he sought my counsel, and I shared with him what I thought would be the quickest path to a seat in the Senate.  One of the highlights of our friendship was his request for me to serve as best man when he married beautiful Cindy. At the wedding, I had the chance to meet his parents, Admiral John McCain, Jr. and Roberta, and I saw immediately where he got his toughness —and charm. 

We traveled together frequently as Senate colleagues, and when fate placed  me at the Pentagon, I turned to John for help with tough battles on The Hill. 

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John is a true warrior who never asked for any quarter and gave none. 

William Tecumseh Sherman in a letter to General Grant wrote, “I knew that wherever I was that you thought of me, and if I was in a tight place you would  come if alive.” I knew that John McCain would always come for me if alive.

— William Cohen, former Secretary of Defense (1997-2001)

 

John McCain meets a motorcycle gang in the remote West

An endearing quality of candidate McCain was that he always wanted a few friends who were not employees and who shared his quirky sense of humor to travel with him, to talk about books, issues and politics, but mainly to tell him the truth, to react to the day’s events and when he screwed up, to give it to him with the bark on. He didn’t always take it well but he always took it aboard. Gradually a hardcore group emerged, Greg Maffei, Lew Eisenberg, me, Greg Wendt and Steve Duprey. All had demanding day jobs so we rotated weeks or days so that there was always one or more of us with him.

We have all stayed close friends and often get together with him. Once not long ago we were on our way to raft the Salmon River and stopped at a mountain overlook. There was a group of 30 or so graying Hells Angel look-alikes parked with their Harleys. As we were taking in the spectacular view of the Sawtooth Mountains we heard a heavily accented voice shout, “OMG, there is John McCain,” and the bikers came rushing over. They all wanted selfies with him declaring that their friends in Sweden would never believe it. As usual, he took the time to pose a selfie with each of the thirty members of this Swedish motorcycle club of doctors and dentists.

— John Lehman, former Secretary of the Navy (1981-1987)

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Lt. Commander John S. McCain III, a POW for over five years, waves to well wishers March 18, 1973 after arriving at Jacksonville Naval Air Station in Florida. At left is his wife, and son Doug, who is on crutches after breaking his leg in a soccer game.


John McCain the former PoW

I want to tell a story about John McCain — a story that took place at the Polish embassy, back when Poland was still a committed democracy of the sort that would host a book party for the release of Anne Applebaum‘s book,  Gulag (which you should read).

Anne will correct me if I am misremembering the details here–as it’s been a few years. But McCain, as I recall, introduced Anne to the assembled audience, which included a large number of Gulag survivors.

His short speech moved me as much as any other speech–on any subject–I have ever seen a politician give. For starters, he had clearly read the book (you should too)–which is a bit of a project. “Gulag” is long. It is exhaustive. And it is brutal and unsparing.

While McCain had many thoughts about the book, he said that the part that really hit him in the gut was Anne’s description of prisoner tapping codes–by which prisoners would tap on cell walls in specific patterns to make out letters to communicate with those in adjacent cells.

He described the code as Anne portrayed the Gulag prisoners using. And then he described the modification that he and his fellow prisoners used–the Cyrillic alphabet being somewhat different from our own. Then he paused and said that he still dreamed in that code sometimes.

And then he tapped. The room was silent.

It’s been 15 years since this happened, and as I say, I could be misremembering details. I suspect, however, that I am not the only person who recalls vividly being stunned by this speech. I have never heard another politician give a speech like that.

— Benjamin Wittes, editor-in-chief, Lawfare


John McCain and a Gold Star Family

I attended the Halifax Security conference with John McCain shortly after the 2016 election.  We had a long talk about the President-elect, and he allowed as how the thing he could not forgive, and that would not allow him to support Trump, was the latter’s despicable attack on the Khan family, who had lost their son Captain Human Khan in Iraq.  For my part, I knew that I would eternally despise Trump for having criticized John McCain for having been a prisoner of war, but that was neither here nor there.  

As he got up to go off with the Congressional delegation I choked a bit, and said to him, “We will need you more than ever, sir.”  He looked at me, and with that hard gleam in his eye, grabbed me by the upper arm, and said, “Keep writing, my friend.” He walked off a few steps, turned, and growled again, “Keep writing.” Which is one of the reasons I have, and will.

Eliot Cohen, professor of strategic studies at Johns Hopkins University

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Sen. John McCain, R-Ariz., receives the Liberty Medal from the National Constitution Center in Philadelphia, Monday, Oct. 16, 2017. The honor is given annually to an individual who displays courage and conviction while striving to secure liberty for people worldwide.

John McCain the thinker

The John McCain I knew was a surprisingly serious guy. Not quite an intellectual, but more a thoughtful person who paid attention to details. He was not a friend–he was a U.S. senator and I was a reporter, covering him mainly in his role as a senior member of the Armed Services Committee. But we were cordial. Once, on a flight back to the United States after a meeting of defense ministers and such in Germany, he stood in the galley of an Air Force jet carrying the congressional delegation and talked for an hour with me about defense policies and people. If he were elected president, he said, he’d want Colin Powell to be his secretary of State. Likewise, before some Senate hearing on a subject I’ve now forgotten, he strolled over and talked with great enthusiasm to me and an AP reporter about a book he was reading on the Boer War. Before another hearing, we were talking about books and I mentioned that I was reading Admiral Stockdale’s memoirs, and was struck by his philosophical approach to his torturers. McCain shrugged said something like, “I just thought of it as a boxing match that lasted for years.”

– Tom Ricks 

 

John McCain the eagle-eyed veteran

I only met John McCain once, but I’ll never forget it. A close friend invited me to attend a fancy dinner honoring McCain, tie, and jacket required, in New York City. I had to leave shortly after dinner and though I really wanted to share this legend’s hand, there was a large group of people around him and I didn’t want to interrupt their conversations.  

As I was walking around his table toward the exit, he interrupted his supporters, caught my arm, pointed to my KIA bracelet, and looking me in the eye asked, “Who do you wear that for?”  I proceeded to tell him about my best friend in the Marine Corps, Ronnie Winchester, and how he was killed in Anbar Province in 2004, and what he meant to me.  

McCain then pulled up his sleeve to reveal that he was wearing a bracelet of a young soldier who was killed in Anbar.  He’d met his mom on the campaign trail and wore it as a reminder, not that he needed one, of his sacred obligation.

 Zach Isol, CEO of Task & Purpose and one-time Marine


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